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14 Mar
And that’s the best part of having cancer — getting to spring it on people. I found out in February that I have cervical cancer — carcinoma in situ — which means, basically, that I have cancer but it hasn’t broken out of my cervix yet. I tried to hang on to the fact that what I have is not truly classified as frank cancer because it hasn’t invaded the surrounding structures, but my doc assured me that the cells appear cancerous under a scope. I gots the cancer, even if it is only in one of my reproductive organs. So, I go to have the better part of my cervix removed next Wednesday.
It would be a fair assessment to say that I am kind of devestated about this because I’d really like more children. And while having carcinoma in situ doesn’t preclude fertility or successful pregnancy, the procedure that I have to have done to get rid of it will negatively impact my ability to maintain a pregnancy, were I to release a mature egg that became magically, magically fertilized and then mysteriously implanted itself into my endometrium.
So, girls! Don’t be a prodigal daughter — get your pap on and get it on once every calendar year! I missed one annual exam (2006) and let me offer you my most resolute assurances — I wish I hadn’t. I’ve had “abnormal” paps before and even had to have some biopsies, but I never expected to have carcinoma in situ at 26. The crazy thing is that I tested negative for HPV — the prom queen of carcinogens. Sure, lots of things can predispose one to cervical cancer, but in my demographic, I think HPV is assumed with that diagnosis. My doctor said that, in all likelihood, my prediliction for the tobacco had something to do with the change in the cells. This, of course, came as a huge surprise, since I had no idea smoking was bad for you. </deadpan>
So, there that is. I have cancer but I won’t have it in a week or so because, with any luck, I’m going to have it all removed on Wednesday.
Kisses!
7 Responses for "Hey, Dudes! I Have Cancer!"
I hope your recovery is swift, and better than anyone could dream.
Take care of yourself down there, Melissa.
Wow. Just…wow.
No poor words of mine could possibly be adequate to such a situation, but I’ll offer them anyway:
Good luck and get better soon.
I hope everything goes well on Wednesday. Good luck.
Kick the cancer’s ass, and kick it hard (in the ass).
Wishing you luck and a speedy recovery!
Everyone hear that?! Get checked every year. I don’t care what anyone else tells you and how little sex you’ve had or how you are so clean of STD’s you don’t need to worry. These days our bodies are signing up for shit like cancer earlier than any generation before us and I don’t think we can count on any formula to live by (e.g. HPV, smoker, sexually active, family history, etc). We’re all likely to get something sooner than we expected. And this ain’t just for the ladies. You hear me? Cancer doesn’t give a shit who you are, what you’ve done, or how old your ass is. It’s out there trying to invite itself to everyone’s party. If I can say I know five people under 30 that have had cancer then it’s time to start taking this seriously.
I was just thinking about you. How are you doing? Did the surgery go ok?
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